Sunday, November 14, 2010

I am so happy to be here...



So, I have finished my two early classes today and am now ready to post some information about my amazing experience this weekend. My mind is brimming with memories and I would like to jot them down here. Apologies for the length of this post!

I went camping with three families this weekend. The parents are all extremely close and have known each other for 25 years. They all work for KCC, a glass-making company whose company apartments are right across from my school. I am close friends with Man Jun, one of my conference room big sisters or "unni."

They remind me of a family from the American 1950s. Good friends, clear goals, two kids each, mom stays at home, and strong family values. Their life, though I'm only seeing a sliver, looks beautiful. Here is a short video of the 3-family husbands singing at a concert.

Anyway, I went camping with them. They all need to practice their English. They picked me up in Jochiwon at 10, I ate breakfast at their house in Sojeong, then we took off for Jeounju. I played "I Spy"in the car with the kids. Once there, we went to a temple, a museum with portraits of old kings, a magic show, a famous bibimbap restaurant, a hanji (paper) museum and ate ALL sorts of new Korean goodies. Wonderful thing about traveling with children, they always want sweets. And since their parents were trying to impress me, we tried EVERYTHING. There was a walnut cake with custard inside called "hodo", a candy with honey filling and surrounded by a fine string taffy that looked like spider webs called "gul-ta-le", and a sweet korean cookie that tasted like toasted marshmallow called "dal-go-na". And a cinnamon alcoholic beverage called "mokju" that was to die for! Here is Mike and his fresh dal-go-na cookie.

I slept in the car and we got to our camp site, an old-style Korean house "hanok". I played a board game with the kids while the parents started grilling food. And, oh my god the food. They bought me a viable vegetarian feast! Man Jun and my unnis at school are always looking out for me and my pseudo-vegetarianism. Well, Man Jun's husband found (most likely) the ONLY website in Korea that sells soy meats! So I had veggie dogs, veggie sausage, veggie burgers and veggie steak! I was in VEGEMEAT HEAVEN! I was so full I thought I might burst. Then I introduced them to an American delicacy known as S'mores.

The adults all stood around the grill, drinking soju and cooking. They asked how old I was when the soju was brought out, and thus the honorary drinking cheer that night was "TWENTY ONE!" And then Jang Suk brought out a guitar! They began singing Korean songs from the old days and I mumbled along best I could. (We also sang, Yesterday and Edelweiss). There's video of us somewhere. And oh! Korean women do fart. You're going to have to ask about that story though. They all drank until their faces were flushed, (but said they were on their best behavior for me) and we went inside. We played Sam, Yuk, Ku where you go around a circle counting, but clap if a number has a 3, 6 or 9. Then they ate MORE! Ramen this time! Man Jun's husband gave me a (drunken) traditional Korean manicure using flower dye on my pinkies and ring fingers. If the color is still there by the first snow, I will find the man I am going to marry. Oh, Korea..

The next morning. We ate a full breakfast, and I played soccer with the kids. Then we ate some fruit, took group photos and set off for mount Daedun. Hiking is beautiful, but my knee really doesn't allow me to go far. The dads climbed to the mountain top, and while I climbed a little.. I mostly ran around with the kids, and sat at the foot od the mountain eating odeng, kimbap, fried ginseng and more candy. Then we ate "kal-guk-su" or knife noodles. Damn! Koreans like to eat.

The car drive back to Jochiwon was touching. Oh Seong / Mike (Man Jun's son as well as my student) fell asleep on my shoulder. Man Jun said she always wants to help me at school, but has a hard time because of her bad English. (This was parlayed through her husband.) She said that I am a smart and kind young girl, my mother should be very proud, and that when I get married, she wants to come to my wedding.

I would never have had this experience had I not taken a chance and come to Korea. I am so happy to be here.

1 comment:

  1. This is awesome! I'm so glad you had fun! I really wish I had a family at my school to invite me in like that! But I shouldn't be too demanding. I've got it pretty good with the rest of the staff. I'm happy in Korea! And I'm happy that you're happy in Korea!

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